Multi-award-winning business owner
Leadership trainer
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Mentor
Husband and Dad
… and once upon a time, a teenager who couldn’t read out loud in class.
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Confidence didn’t come naturally to me.
At school, I struggled. Not with the work, but with believing in myself. I couldn’t speak up in front of people, never read in class, and spent years hiding behind a mask of false confidence by hanging out with the wrong crowd. It was easier to act tough than to admit I was scared. Scared of being judged. Scared of failing. Scared of not being enough.
I drifted through school and into college with no real direction. I couldn’t even speak to people outside my age group - and speaking to girls? Forget it. I had no idea what I wanted to do with my life.
But everything changed when one person believed in me. A mentor. Someone who took time out of her day to help me take small steps toward becoming more confident. Step by step, it worked. That spark changed everything.
I studied Sports and Leisure Management for three years, joined the Territorial Army, drove armoured vehicles, and even trained overseas. You’d think I’d be confident by then - but I was only 19, still finding my way.
A summer season at Butlin’s in Skegness helped me grow. Then I took a leap of faith and spent a summer in the USA counselling troubled teenagers and young adults at a summer camp. I was becoming someone I could be proud of.
But life had more tests in store.
I lost my job, income, car - all in a couple of weeks - and ended up homeless.
The only work I could get was cleaning floors in leisure centres. But because of the journey I’d already been on, I now had resilience. I cleaned with pride. Soon, I was back coaching sports and lifeguarding poolside - slowly rebuilding my life, and myself.
Eventually, I moved to London to learn how to run pubs and restaurants - very big ones. I worked hard, led teams, and won multiple national awards for leadership and innovation. That shy teen had come a long way.
Today, I run a global leadership and management training consultancy (Ultimate Leadership Training Ltd), working with organisations of all sizes to help people unlock their potential - just like I learned to unlock mine.
I’ve written three books, available on Amazon. I’ve climbed some of the highest peaks in the world, including:
But my proudest adventure? Becoming a dad to two amazing children. I see their challenges in this always-on, social-media-heavy world - and I remember mine.
That’s why I created Bravory.co.uk.
But I also know how to turn that around - and I can show you how.
Bravory isn’t about pretending to be fearless. It’s about becoming brave - one small step at a time. Just like I did.
Ready to write your own brave story?
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